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How Do I Feel Better About Myself?

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Hi Laura, I have very low self esteem and am destroying myself with negative thoughts. How do I feel better about myself? I have done some bad things in the past and now it is all erupting in my mind and I can not take it. I would be very happy if you have any suggestions or what i should do. I am on an anti depressant and I really do not know if it…
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What Is The Nature Of Time? Why Must We Age?

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Laura, Could you please explain to myself and your readers the nature of time in our lives and the important role it plays? For example, why must we age? Also, what importance is there in being “born” to a particular time and place? Thank you! Wade Werner Hello Wade, Thank you for your juicy questions. Time is a phenomena that exists on the Earth Plane only. There is no such thing as time on The…
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What Should You Do When A Friend Lets You Down?

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Dear Laura, What should you do when a friend lets you down and doesn’t get it when you try to tell them? anon. Dear Anon., We’ve all been there and it definitely hurts. If they don’t want to listen, aren’t willing to take it in, don’t accept responsibility or don’t want to ‘get it’…then you move on. You gather up your dignity and your valued self, and you move forward in another direction elsewhere. Much…
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Healing Attraction To Wrong Partners & Raising Self Worth

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Dear Laura, I am AncientStardust.com’s newest fan…having ‘MET’ you via Bob Oslon on OfSpirit.com. I seek your guidance concerning an on-line friendship/relationship I recently ‘LET GO’ of after seven months. He had a habit of ‘disappearing’ for weeks (with no apology or explanation). Is he playing a mind game? Perhaps I am at fault here? I am strangely attracted to this man. Please enlighten me on his perplexing behavior and what he thought of the…
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Beware of Scam Artists and Cons

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Dear Laura, A woman says she is a healer and can cure my terrible shyness if I give her $300. I am in need of help but am unsure. She prays and attends church so maybe I can trust her. What do you think? —HG Dear HG, Do not give this person your money. This is how charlatans and thieves make money. Good practitioners have references. They have set fees and schedules for sessions. They…
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Learning to Stay in Your Own Lane

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Dear Laura, Why do people get offended at someone wanting to offer something that may better their life? —Just trying to help Dear Just Trying, Because they didn’t ask for your help. And who are you to say that one life is better than another? There’s nothing worse than unsolicited advice pointing out how silly, stupid, foolish, unwise, unlucky, unproductive, unhealthy, etc., that someone thinks you are. Your intentions, however good, are completely inappropriate. It’s…
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Forgiving The Abusers In Your Past

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Dear Laura, I am a 62 year old grandma having a terrible time forgiving my mother and sister for some awful things that happened to us in the past, including sexual abuse. They continue to dismiss my attempts to discuss things and bring them out into the open. Contact with them is full of barbs, denial and pain. I have done a lot of work on myself to heal and understand, and yet this last…
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…When To Fire A Friend

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Dear Laura, One of my friends recently let me down on something she agreed to. When I tried to tell her that I was hurt and upset, she got nasty and blamed me. I wasn’t prepared for her attack on top of the letdown. It was doubly hurtful. Looking back, now I can see a pattern of her needs always coming first, and mine not being taken seriously by her. I consider myself to be…
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Can Objects Hold Energy?

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Dear Laura, Can objects hold energy? Like furniture? — Betty F. Dear Betty, Absolutely! All objects are made up of atoms and atoms contain energy. Did you ever enter a room and feel an emotion like joy or sadness or tranquility? Even empty rooms and houses have energetic impressions. So do gardens, vehicles, stones, clothing and much more. Not only do the material component atoms hold energy, but so do our bodies, thoughts and feelings.…
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Facing A Controlling Partner And Creating Healthy Balance

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Dear Laura, I love my husband, but he is definitely “high maintenance.” I would like to go on a retreat with some girl friends, but he says it isn’t fair for me to go and have an adventure without him. I love him a lot, but how can I get him to understand that I need some time to reunion with my women friends? — (Name withheld upon request) Dear Dutiful, It is important for…
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