I have recently lost a loved one and did not get to say everything I wanted to say before they passed over. How can I get a message to him?
My condolences to you K. Don’t worry, the good news is that you can still get a message to him now, and you don’t need any fancy or expensive measures in order to do it. Your beloved can still hear you and will fully understand from The Other Side.
Create a simple ritual of closure-your chance to sit, get yourself quieted, light a candle, and speak your mind. Don’t worry if you can’t hear your loved one’s response or reaction. The purpose is for you to say out loud what you felt was unsaid and release it. That is the only way you are going to begin to heal. Let go of your regrets so that there is room for healing to come in it’s place.
You can use this whole experience to learn and grow so that you are living a more truthful path in all your relationships, and owning your power in the now. Say no when you mean no and yes when you mean yes. When people mean a lot to you, tell them. If you change your mind about something, honor it. Go on record. This will be a wonderful legacy to your loved one and creates a powerful example for us all.